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Worry Don't worry, be happy

Worry – Let Go Of The Load – Part II

Stop Worry To Let Go Of The Load First, let’s talk about the past. Many people worry, torture themselves and agonize about things that have happened in the past. Sometimes it’s things that they have done, perhaps criminal activity. Perhaps taking advantage of someone, lying, cheating or stealing. Sometimes it is about what has happened […]

Let go of the load - Toby Christensen

Let Go Of The Load – Part I

Let Go Of The Load If your hands are filled with shit, how can you pick up the gold? Here is a tip, let go of the load! This seems like a very simple question. But, it is amazing to me how many people live their lives allowing pain, victim-ness, blame, and shame to prevent […]

Toby Christensen Building Your Legacy Your own shit

Your Own Shit

Your Own Shit First of all, what in your life is working? It is important to take inventory of your own shit. Some is good and some not so good. Perhaps you’re making a lot of money and you are meeting your financial goals for you and your family. Maybe you have purchased that new […]

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More Shit That Is Your Fault

More Shit That Is Your Fault Defending my point of view also had push back. Definitely more shit that is your fault. Besides the choices to live a crazy and reckless life, I am also at fault for making decisions to defend my point of view regardless of how it hurt others. Right out of […]

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Shit That Is Your Fault

Shit That Is Your Fault Things you need to take responsibility for and shit that is your fault. Choices you make are your fault. After landing my dream job I moved to Portland, Oregon. I had more fun and made more money than I ever imagined. I made many good choices as a buyer for […]

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Shit That Is NOT Your Fault

I have some good news for you! There Is Some Shit That Is Not Your Fault There is a lot of shit that you came in with that is not your fault. You literally come into this world preloaded with behavioral patterns that influence you. This is before you are trained to process information in […]

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The Western Condition

The Western Condition Can Be Complicated I was talking with a good friend of mine who was raised in a mostly unknown country in West Africa. The country is Burkina Faso. We were talking about the western condition. About self-esteem, ego, blame, shame, and how these issues are so prevalent in the western world. Sobonfu […]

Toby Christensen and the Human Condition

The Human Condition

You Are Part Of The Human Condition Unless you are visiting from another planet or dimension. And I know some people who believe that they are! In my new book Release Your Sh*t & Reclaim Your Power I dedicate a chapter to the human condition. This is a condition that involves your mind. Super Fast […]