Coaching Series Month Two Video #1 Establishing Your Status

How Do You Establish Status?

We all naturally seek status, Its in our DNA.

When you are in a room full of people you, by nature start looking to find where and how you fit in.

It is  natural to compare yourself to others so you know your place. Knowing your place establishes confidence and comfort.

Status By Comparison

Have you ever looked through a New York Magazine and felt like your life is microscopic compared to these people?

I have, and it has never been very productive. It is not inspiring, nor does it enhance motivation to compare.

Status by comparison is usually a very inaccurate way to find your status.

Looks Can Be Deceiving

How many times have you heard about a high roller buying a big house at the top of the hill and then a year later finding out that he is filing bankruptcy?

I was in downtown Portland with a young man I was mentoring and a car when flying by. It was obvious by the throaty scream of the exhaust that is was a Ferrari

The young man turned to my and said, “How come the guys who drive those cool cars are always in them alone?”  I thought that was an interesting observance.

Status By Comparison Can Be An Illusion

What you see is not what you get. Status is always connected to your core values. If stuff is a core value of yours, stuff is how you will rate yourself.

You will hear a couple stories in the video about comparing your stuff to others and how it can be detrimental.

What you see is not always what you get.

 

 

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